Skip to main content

Manipulation Doesn't Work

Why it doesn't work.

The reason manipulation and control doesn't work is the same reason deceit, dishonesty, and cheating doesn't work.

I like what Seth Godin said in his blog post, titled, The Benefit of the Doubt. He said, "you can manipulate someone by scowling, by nagging, by putting on airs. But if you do that, you end up with people who have been manipulated, who are wounded and not ready to soar." Wow. That's some message, huh? What it means to me is that if we want to control people, what we'll get is a bunch of weak people who act like puppets who will only move the way we want them to move. In such a case, we will go backwards. Nothing we do will grow, because only planted seeds grow, not seeds that never take root. If we want new and constant growth we have to continue to plant new seeds. Otherwise we will continue to get the same ole overgrown plants.

We must constantly innovate and improve.

Case-in-point: My rationale as to why K-Mart is going out of business is that they tried to manipulate customers. They thought they were safe and they underestimated customer intelligence. They tried to fool us. It didn't work. Such a practice will render an organization (or person) unhelpful, broke, and out of business.

Manipulation simply doesn't work.

But wisdom does. "Blessed is the one who finds wisdom, and the one who gets understanding" (Proverbs 3:13).

For daily encouragement, visit and share this blog, my FacebookTwitterInstagram
PinterestLinkedin, & Snapchat: InSharonsHeart.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

I feel free

Daily Devotional Podcast. Follow along with blog post. How are you feeling today? What kind of head space have you been in lately? I ask, because I'm just wondering if anybody feels like me -- free like me. Free as an eagle. Free as can be. That's right, out with doing business the old stale way and in with a fresh new operation. It's a shifting happening in the atmosphere of Sharon's life and I'm moving on to the big and awesome things God has for me. What  do you say for yourself? What are you speaking over your life? What it is for you?  For me, I am no longer afraid to go out in the deep end. I am no longer afraid to fly higher, I am no longer concerned about what I have or do not have, and I am no longer concerned about what anybody thinks or says. Who the heck cares anymore? I don't. Because God tells me he doesn't give me a spirit of fear or timidity ( 2 Timothy 1 :7) , but He gives me a spirit of love, confidence, power, self-control, and

Protecting My Peace - Day 98 - Momentum and Movement, That’s What's Up

Click to listen to current podcast episode. “Never Giving Up” are power-words — strong affirmations that give us momentum and movement. That’s what’s up. We can do so much more in our lives when we have momentum and movement. It’s about standing, literally and not sitting or laying around feeling sorry for ourselves. I used to do that once upon a time and that sorrowful thinking is for the birds. We don’t have to be down. We can get up and get going even if we start small. In fact, I love starting small, because it helps set a firm foundation of habits and routines. Momentum and movement will help us get and maintain a position of strength to do what God says we can do. CLICK  to get my latest ebook collection that will help you get MOVING regarding the things you want in your life.  

God blesses whomever he wants to bless, whenever he wants to bless them

Daily Devotional Podcast. Follow along with blog post. When I was going through a dark time -- when I had nothing -- there was a certain person who helped me sometimes. She helped me whenever she basically felt like it, but she did help, and for that I'm appreciative. But, something interesting happened after I started growing out of my despair. Something interesting started happening when I no longer needed her for anything. And something interesting happened even though I remained kind and grateful towards. The interesting thing that happened was that she started hating on me. She started treating me differently. At first I was really bothered by it, because I thought she and her husband were nice people I wanted in my life. I liked that they had a sense of compassion and were interested in helping people who were down and low. That really appealed to me, because I was raised that way; my mother was raised that way; her mother was raised that way, and it goes back to as fa